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Elizabeth Doll's avatar

I think this is exactly correct and why I've pushed very hard within Braver Angels to oppose adopting particular stances, especially within my program. Everyone wants Congress to "do something" but we staunchly disagree about what that something should be. People have vastly different views even of what policies are "depolarizing." The moment you step into endorsing a policy is the moment you stop playing the role of a neutral counselor trying to help people see each other and become an advocate for something other than that.

My one compromise here is that I think we are advocates-- we're just advocates for the extremely narrow cause of neutral cross-partisan spaces, or attitudinally moderate engagement, or the practice of personal transformation instead of transformation by personal or political coercion.

I think sometimes within the depolarization space, people either want us to be too activist or forget that it's okay and even good to engage in personal activism. The point is not to make partisans think they have to be less civically engaged. The point is to demonstrate healthy conflict in civic engagement.

I spoke tonight at a rally against property taxes and I decried progressives in Washington state denying economic science. I didn't call them names or attack the entire party opposed to mine. I did call out what I see as hypocrisy among the far left in the WA legislature. I even think I used that phrasing once-- progressives in the state legislature. I want people to know that it's good and right to have strong political opinions and advocate for them and it's important to express those opinions fairly and describe your opponents accurately.

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kellyjohnston's avatar

This is a terrific post. During my two-plus decades of work in the civility space, it is hampered by too many well-meaning people, mainly on the left, who focus more on shifting political beliefs and ideologies instead of interpersonal attitudes and approaches. The former has hampered my efforts to bring more people from "the right" into discussions, as they feel the real purpose is to co-opt and neutralize them. Sadly, that's more often true than not. Thanks for your clarity.

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